International relationships series
跨国恋系列
主播：Peter（英国） 翩翩（中国）
歌曲：You're Beautiful
跨国恋系列《一》:
这个欧美男生在爱你？或者，只是being friendly.
Make sure if this guy is definitely interested in you. Or he’s just being friendly. 首先要明白欧美的男生只是在being friendly，还是说真的has a crush on you。
being friendly 表示友好
have a crush on you 对你一见钟情
He fancies you. 他喜欢你！
1.
General ways they show friendliness?
欧美男人表达友好的常用方式？
To show friendliness, maybe they could pay you some compliments. 有的时候会夸奖一下，而且一定是short and polite的夸奖。 比如： I like your dress. 我喜欢你的裙子。 I like your hairstyle. 你的发型不错呀！
Buy food for you, buy you drinks 偶尔会给女生买一下食物、帮你买单、或者给你买饮料喝，但注意不是very often哦。
Open the door for you, or open the car for you to get in and out. 帮你开车门，或者进门时帮你开一下门也只是在being gentlemen哦，千万别misunderstand啦。
所以说平时偶尔照顾一下女生，或者帮女生买个单等等，It doesn’t mean anything.并不能说明什么，所以此时不宜自作多情哦。
You don’t want to have mixed signals. 你也不想会错意吧。
2.
How do they flirt?
欧美男人表达暧昧的常用方式？
flirt 暧昧，眉来眼去，调情
It very similar to being friendly, but maybe there are more attention than usual.
欧美男人表达暧昧的方式其实跟表示友好有点类似，但是在频率上会更多一些。
Signals if he has a crush on you ：
Paying more or strong compliments 经常夸奖你，无论是语言上的more words, 频率上的high frequency,还是情感上的 strong feelings，都是在跟你表达flirt呢！
Look at you sideways glances 经常偷偷看你
sideways glances 斜瞥，偷偷地从侧面看你
If you catch this guy give you a sideways glances, or give you more strong compliments, then he has a crush on you.
如果你发现与男生偷偷地看你，或者经常夸奖你，那么恭喜你，他喜欢你哦
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3.
What would he do if he’s in love with a Chinese woman?
欧美男人爱上一个女人的表现？
Buy her gifts. 给她买礼物，flowers，teddy bear， 买cute things就对啦!
Confess their feelings. confess 表白
怎样表白呢？
I feel like we are more than friends. 我觉得我们友达以上了。
I have feelings for you. 我对你蛮有感觉的。
I have a thing for you =I have a crush on you. 我暗恋你/我对你有点不一样的感觉。
那么什么时候说I am in love with you 呢？
It’s more serious. They would only say that after they are already couple.
这句话通常在已经是情侣的时候才能说哦。
4.
How can you tell a man is trying to date with a girl?
欧美男人在试图跟一个女人约会的表现？
Paying for her food and drink very often.
吃饭时经常给她付钱
Gentlemen will walk her home after a night out.
绅士的男人会送她回家
a night out 晚间外出
Often ask a girl to cinema/ dinner 经常约她去看电影或者吃饭
Following you on social media, and like your posts. 在社交媒体上，像Titter、WeChat、Weibo等，他们会like most of your posts，并且迅速点赞或者留言。
give you a like/ comment 给你点个赞/留个言
It’s very important not to have mixed signals. Or it could be awkward.
不要会错意，不要自作多情这一点非常重要！否则的话就会非常尴尬。
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